I
fell in love with Chopra’s Law of Power chapter. After reading this chapter I
wanted to loan out this book to a few people who need to realize the true
definition of power. There was a single paragraph at the bottom of page 61 that
summed up power:
“On the contrary, the truly powerful live in a state
of never-ending calm. They are not fearful of the future, but rather
comfortable with uncertainty and prepared at all moments with the infinite
choices at their disposal provided by the unknown. They do now stew in regret,
feel guilt over the past, or get trapped by old conditions and habits. That’s
not to say they are not thoughtful and reflective, but they’re not imprisoned by
emotions and circumstances that have already come and gone and cannot be
changed. As a result, their body language demonstrates the ease with which they
interact with the world. Powerful people are comfortable with themselves,
prepared at any given moment and confident in their ability to react with
creativity and grace to every situation. Who among us doesn’t want to master
this skill?”
It’s
almost hypocritical of me to want to make others read this chapter. For me, as
I can assume for many others, power means control. Not once does Chopra mention
control. One could argue that a person
with power as defined by Chopra has the control to be comfortable with
themselves, has the control to be prepared, has the control to react, but there’s
a difference is having these sort of controls and being in control. More often than not, being in control is seen as
being powerful like in the instance of President Obama or your boss. Chopra has
set my head straight on the definition of power and I wish I could share it
further.
Of
course Chopra’s characteristics of powerful people have limitations. For
instance you have a “powerful” person who is too comfortable with themselves,
over prepared, and overly confident. I wonder, except for the few Superheroes,
if it’s even possible to be considered powerful. One needs to be comfortable
enough, prepared enough, and confident enough without overdoing or underdoing
it in any one of those categories. How can one even try to achieve all those characteristics
while still living “in a state of never-ending calm” ?? Power must be a power
within itself only attainable by our superheroes.

The quote that you highlight off of Chopra's book has also caught my attention and just like you I thought power meant having control. Chopra has taught me that I was wrong. Oddly enough, I have realized that the people in my life that I view as having high position of status are normally the people that are most calm and lack fear (or they at least put on a face that makes me believe this).
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